something he blabbers...!!!!!

wats the purpose of ur existence in this world ?...
think for the next 5 min...do think carefully and come up with answers..it should be honest and down from the bottom of ur heart...
I asked the same question,while I was delivering some self revelation talks,an engineering guy stood up with a serious face ,we were expecting something bold and fresh answer from him,to our astonishment he said "to save the world".....well un doubtfully that made us laugh,but that was so innocent reply-that made us think.

why should we live,wats the purpose of our existence ?

They say to get a gram of gold u have to dust out tons of dirt's.Now there are 3 possible categories of people- first people don't recognize that there is gold beneath the dirt,second few people attempt to clear off the dirt-but leave off in the middle of the process hmmm may be due to laziness ...could be.The third category of people completly dust out...but they start searching for where is the gold.

The thing we need to understand from the above is gold always existed,whether u recognise it or not it always existed,situations dont make man but just reveals who he is,the ego called "he/she" has always been there...only situations reaveal wat exactly he is to that moment-similar to dusting off activity to reveal -sometimes gold but most of the times we get only tin and lead.

we people actually live in a world of happiness,the thing is we have drawn concentric circles around us in the form of ego and its byproducts,which prevents us from understanding why we are here.happiness has always been with us.

so wat exactly is happiness am talking about here ?
have u ever dated or atleast went alone with ur boy or girl friend...the person u always wanted to be with if u havent -ok then just imagine.those seconds ull never want to erase from ur memories,those seconds filled with happiness.wait wait,how much time did u spend with him or her ?may be some 30 min or so.ull remember all those minutes with her...for u have been happy.Then wat happened ..she left, u carried those memories...so this happiness is very much transient and also it requires the assistance from a second person to feel the happiness-THAT HAS ALWAYS EXISTED WITHIN U.Now if u get a chance to feel that happyness not only for that 30 min but throughout ur entitre lifetime wat will u do-can u imagine that kind of existence always happy each and every second-then thats called BLISS,the all mighty has given us a chance to feel this bliss,but we fail to recognise this fact,and start drawing cicles around us.

The first thing we need to understand-happiness don exist somewhere outside,it has always existed within us,the thing is we have failed to recognise its existence by drawing circles dumping it with dirts wat we collect from our experiences.happiness exist in 2 levels one wat we can recognise within us and other dimension of happiness wat exists outside-which is a very broad spectrum-complete bliss-the aim of life.

..so the purpose of ur existence is to dust off ?in the form of experiences ?,well thats 50% right,the next 50% is to gradually loose ur hold on the gold wat u got after so much of hard work,now u are free,a state called bliss will prevail--ull find urself melting in the happiness that exists around u.Smile won be there -ull become very much consious-smile is just an instrument for expressing that ur happy...u will fail to use that instrument ...for ull loose everything and start enjoying ur existence for the first time....

wen u attain this state ....well i don have much to say after this...ull come to know everything.

ma first love letter...

hi,
can i have ur next 5 min ...thank u..

i don know how to start,but i hav to start...somehow..
I think am in love with U...wait wait wait.....
don stare at me,if "love"is the name wat am having on u is called -then I think am in "love" with u ...

I know am not the person who fits perfectly into ur dreams,am aint beautiful-as u expect,am aint charismatic as u want ,but one thing for sure
nobody in this world would be able to LOVE u as much i do.
actually i want u to say a BIG NO to me.I never belived in the fact that-wedlock is the fullstop point for LOVE its just a comma.

i know wat i have on u is true love ....
thats y even wen i know the answer from ull be negative -still am proposing to u.This proposal is something diffrent-for wat i want from u is a 2 letterword-NO.
U find ur man-whoom u think will suit u,whoom u consider to be beautiful,whoom u consider to be everything -ull be happy with.
All i ask from god is a 2 second more lifetime than urs,i don want to leave U just like that-will be always there for u...WAITING for u.
somewhere,in this world -just be sure that a soul will be always thinking abt u-always caring for u.


thanks for sparing ur valuable 5 min..
expecting a negative reply...

DON MAKE ME THINK. !!!!!!!!!!!

hmmm ..... this time am gonna tell u a real life incident,who else am the HERO of this action story...(sorry girls-no heroine required..one man show..better luck next time)

today i woke up by morning 5.30,pushed by the previous days oath-that "i will jog in the morning",gave a try for the same-but returned with a small success.later by 8 in the morning-to keep up ma promise for saving a child's life went to a famous hospital- for blood donation

u know something blood donation is a very good thing,but i didn't expect that all together the people over there will take 450ml of blood, i got ma energy level lowered to the bottom..still am confusing whether this thing really happened or just ma belief(mana brandhi....) ???

Then i shuttled to college,attended a boring class ,got into a wrong bus ...got down at the wrong stopping (u know ....BY THE POWER OF 30RS BUS TICKET...)all these things happened in chain-u know like a sequence,here comes the important part, i hav a noble habit of stopping at panipoori stalls wherever available and giv a try for it ,now the same thing happened -while i was eating the panipoori i missed the bus- that i had to board.nevermind i still had that ticket,then I went to a nearby stop where a miracle happened....

i waited ..waited ....waited ...waited ...but didnt get any bus ,even when the bus came it didnt stop at the stopping,i really got pissed off,then came a bus -a sigh of relief...it was moving slowly,by the time I was trying to catch the bus by running,ma foot got slipped(remember BOYs film..)and the bus dragged me till the stopping ...FLIP of a second-only 2 things had equal probability
1)first one-well ma photo hanging in the wall,
2)second-that's Wat happened-that's y Ur able to read Wat am telling u now

back tyre of the bus could hav passed straight OVER me....but that didn't happen.,i saw both the things- one second by the side of death and another second by the side of ma life, u know Wat the first thought i got on that very precious second --the second which pushed me back to life.....

1)Am still alive, why should i live ?
2)for whom should i live.... ??

only a few people in this world understood crucification of Jesus in the way its supposed to be, son of god,a prophet,but he didn't stop the things that happened to him.A sleeping person could be woke up easily, wat about a person who is in a deep slumber sleep ??,something shocking-a event that should shake his heart and feelings...together.thats what Jesus did to his people to wake them up...to realise who is god..

A similar thing happened to me today,i was really shook by that incident-only a flip of second-left me with 2 options either i die or be alive.The very second i confirmed that am alive-3 people came before ma eyes my parents and another important person (he hehe),i didn't care about who saw me-(bcos the entire people crowd was watching me),who talked abt me...really u know,those questions really shook me apart,I don know Wat happened but I was internally enjoying and I started smiling.A paradigm shift i should say...

as Steve jobs said-"u can connect the knots only from the back"...u don know y things r happening ..but only in the distant part of the future u can come to understand "WAT EVER HAS HAPPENED -HAS HAPPENED FOR Ur GOOD".Things that happen hav already been written and it happens in a very logical and sequential pattern(chaos theory)- everything from mor 5.30 till eve 7.30 ,everything happened in a seqential manner.

now u try to answer this question......

1)why should U(i mean u) live in this world-wats ur purpose of existence ???
2)If u think U deserve to live then comes the next question,for whoom should U live....??

take ur own time,think think think....
cheers....

what to name ?....part2

"purana thiliirunthu puranathai eduthal enjuvathum puranamey....."
-upanishad

......... Those who were born in this world,could be human,dog,pig,plant,cat....whatever ...whatever it might be...they share a common thing -LOVE-the evidence for u being a creature created by god.....i know a person who has just discovered that he too belongs to this world(now pause for a min and think abt this-whether u belong to this world or not ?),just by simply understanding the fact...he has the so called element LOVE-somewhere in a remote place in his heart.

....u ....S... i mean its U....do u know wats the diffrence between LUST and LOVE ?,well if u havent come across any such stuff unitill now....just say a thank to god.lust is something that arises out of ur animal instinct,love is something that arises out of ur divine part,the problem with us is we show our love only to our opposite sex-in most of the cases and fail to understand the demarcation between love and lust-it is only then u hav to be shameful for u were born as an animal and die as animal...may be u can call urself a social animal !!!!...

i would like to quote wat ramalinga vallalar has said "vaadiya payirai kanda pozhuthellam vaadinen "...now can u think wat cld made him to feel so for a plant,its pure LOVE-love that arises out on our fellow creatures,he didnt expect anything from that plant-perhaps he couldnt,a love thats formed to satisfy mutual needs won be called as a love-it becomes a contract !!.a contract can never be love-do u understand.

Its not like am totally against the so called love(lust)-to satisfy a mans and womens need-but am just asking u to understand wat love really means and is supposed to be.Each and every organism born in this world have a very prime duty-that is giving a offspring of its own kind to this world-thats the respect u show to ur bodily form -with which u have come to this world,its a very important thing not to be denied indeed.

can u meassure love -in a man and womens realtionship ?. s ,u can find real love starts only after the needs of the body comes to a saturation(atleast in most of the cases),then there exists pure love.Do u think u need to really love a man/women ?sure sure ...u hav to lov....wat am asking is don just fix ur boundaries within man/women,love everything..i mean everything...in this world-a love without any expectation.

lov is the only thing-an inbuilt one-with which u were born in this world-ur mom recognised it -thats y u call her mom,ur dad recognised it thats y u call him dad.Did ur mom expect anything from u -while u were born ?did she feed u with any expectation.....s she had one --she always wanted u to smile lead a joyful life.Thats wat we call as pure love-a love thats being felt even after bearing lots of pain for u(just pause for a moment and think abt ur mom NOW)
finally to end up this post ,let me quote wat mother teressa had said

"dont judge people,if u start judging people u won find time to love them "

what to name ?

This world would have seen so many relationships...various forms various names..mom,dad.sis,bro....and the list goes on. the substratum on which these relationships had grown...HM hm mm..well none other than LOVE.
This world has seen so many love ...and its still seeing with its wide eyes open !!,only when this hard to swallow pill comes in Ur way...u would realise Wat am trying to say...for others its still a mechanical thing.
u are born and one day u too will die, at one point of time ull come across this thorn..that pierces straight into Ur heart... i swear ull feel the pain.Relationships are not recognized by their names but by the way they feel for each other...even if its going to be one way relationship(if they don recognize wat the heck u have on them !!)...
we don know when this will happen and we also don know y this strange phenomenon happens only with few persons...top of it WE CANT UNDERSTAND WHY THEY SAY NO TO US ?

when they say NO to u...it pains..but don worry just believe in this FACT-EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR GOOD...but if its a true love am sure Ur mind won listen to those..
situations don make man-THEY JUST REVEAL TO HIM WAT HE IS REALLY.....
even the beast falls for LOVE...but no one understands that the beast too has an heart and its own feeling !!!!
relationships and love....man who invented these stuffs...just to make sure that u get a shameful experience and stand like a joker atleast once in ur life...maybe the god shld be liable for these invention...

ha hahaha....am sure life will laugh at u,tears will flow from ur heart making its way thru ur eyes-no people to recognise those,worst of it ur loved ones will just go like that..might even laugh at ur tears....don worry u will come across these stuffs...until then enjoy ur life....

20 years from now...wen u look back at ur life...am sure ull recognise certain things u laughed at,u cried for,wat u missed....the second just passed now won return,its lost forever....giving birth to the next second...so enjoy this second...don worry abt wat has happened...just make sure that u have collected certain vauable lessons from ur worst experiences...just thank those people who have made it happen so cucessfully.

seize the day...
for this second won come here after...
realize the preciousness of this second...make the most of this second....cheers

meditation-simple steps

1)So let's all meditate for a few minutes
2)Sit comfortably erect, in a balanced position. You don't have to be ramrod straight like a soldier. Just try not to lean forward or back, to the left or the right
3)Close your eyes and say to yourself, 'May I be truly happy and free from suffering.' This may sound like a strange, even selfish, way to start meditating, but there are good reasons for it. One, if you can't wish for your own happiness, there is no way that you can honestly wish for the happiness of others. Some people need to remind themselves constantly that they deserve happiness — we all deserve it, but if we don't believe it, we will constantly find ways to punish ourselves, and we will end up punishing others in subtle or blatant ways as well.

4)Two, it's important to reflect on what true happiness is and where it can be found. A moment's reflection will show that you can't find it in the past or the future. The past is gone and your memory of it is undependable. The future is a blank uncertainty. So the only place we can really find happiness is in the present. But even here you have to know where to look. If you try to base your happiness on things that change — sights, sounds, sensations in general, people and things outside — you're setting yourself up for disappointment, like building your house on a cliff where there have been repeated landslides in the past. So true happiness has to be sought within. Meditation is thus like a treasure hunt: to find what has solid and unchanging worth in the mind, something that even death cannot touch.

5)To find this treasure we need tools. The first tool is to do what we're doing right now: to develop good will for ourselves. The second is to spread that good will to other living beings. Tell yourself: 'All living beings, no matter who they are, no matter what they have done to you in the past — may they all find true happiness too.' If you don't cultivate this thought, and instead carry grudges into your meditation, that's all you'll be able to see when you look inside.

6)Only when you have cleared the mind in this way, and set outside matters aside, are you ready to focus on the breath. Bring your attention to the sensation of breathing. Breathe in long and out long for a couple of times, focusing on any spot in the body where the breathing is easy to notice, and your mind feels comfortable focusing. This could be at the nose, at the chest, at the abdomen, or any spot at all. Stay with that spot, noticing how it feels as you breathe in and out. Don't force the breath, or bear down too heavily with your focus. Let the breath flow naturally, and simply keep track of how it feels. Savor it, as if it were an exquisite sensation you wanted to prolong. If your mind wanders off, simply bring it back. Don't get discouraged. If it wanders 100 times, bring it back 100 times. Show it that you mean business, and eventually it will listen to you.

7)If you want, you can experiment with different kinds of breathing. If long breathing feels comfortable, stick with it. If it doesn't, change it to whatever rhythm feels soothing to the body. You can try short breathing, fast breathing, slow breathing, deep breathing, shallow breathing — whatever feels most comfortable to you right now...

8)Once you have the breath comfortable at your chosen spot, move your attention to notice how the breathing feels in other parts of the body. Start by focusing on the area just below your navel. Breathe in and out, and notice how that area feels. If you don't feel any motion there, just be aware of the fact that there's no motion. If you do feel motion, notice the quality of the motion, to see if the breathing feels uneven there, or if there's any tension or tightness. If there's tension, think of relaxing it. If the breathing feels jagged or uneven, think of smoothing it out... Now move your attention over to the right of that spot — to the lower right-hand corner of the abdomen — and repeat the same process... Then over to the lower left-hand corner of the abdomen... Then up to the navel... right... left... to the solar plexus... right... left... the middle of the chest... right... left... to the base of the throat... right... left... to the middle of the head...[take several minutes for each spot]

j.krishanmurthi

"...An old dream is dead and a new one is being born, as a flower that pushes through the solid earth. A new vision is coming into being and a greater consciousness is being unfolded. ...A new strength, born of suffering, is pulsating in the veins and a new sympathy and understanding is being born of past suffering - a greater desire to see others suffer less, and, if they must suffer, to see that they bear it nobly and come out of it without too many scars. I have wept, but I do not want others to weep; but if they do, I know what it means."


"You must become liberated not because of me but in spite of me."

“You know, in all this there are various powers like clairvoyance, reading somebody’s thought – which is the most disgusting thing to do: it is like reading letters that are private. There are various powers. You know what I am talking about, don’t you? You call them siddhi, don’t you? Do you know that all these things are like candles in the sun? When there is no sun there is darkness, and then the candle and the light of the candle become very important. But when there is the sun, the light, the beauty, the clarity, then all these powers, these siddhis – developing various centres, chakras, kundalini, you know all that business – are like candlelight; they have no value at all. And when you have that light, you don’t want anything else.”

"Meditation is one of the greatest arts in life-perhaps the greatest, and one cannot possibly learn it from anybody, that is the beauty of it. It has no technique and therefore no authority. When you learn about yourself, watch yourself, watch the way you walk, how you eat, what you say, the gossip, the hate, the jealousy-if you are aware of all that in yourself, without any choice, that is part of meditation."


“Meditation is the emptying of the mind of all thought, for thought and feeling dissipate energy. They are repetitive, producing mechanical activities which are a necessary part of existence. But they are only part, and thought and feeling cannot possibly enter into the immensity of life. Quite a different approach is necessary, not the path of habit, association and the known; there must be freedom from these. Meditation is the emptying of the mind of the known. It cannot be done by thought or by the hidden prompting of thought, nor by desire in the form of prayer, nor through the self-effacing hypnotism of words, images, hopes, and vanities. All these have to come to an end, easily, without effort and choice, in the flame of awareness.”